Once I left home at sixteen. Once I wasn’t living with my mother I had no real connection with her until she died, and by then I was out of the country.
Living In a World Dominated By Small Dick Energy
A sharp reflection on ego, insecurity, and energy, exploring how performative masculinity shapes behaviour, relationships, and the way we move through the world
Scary Creepy, Crawly, Crittery Things Terrified Me During Mourning Time
Alone at the farm was my worst nightmare. When I arrived back home after B died, it was me and the creepy critters for the next nine months.
Follow Your Heart, Reinvention Is The Key To Happiness
Reinvention, comes naturally to me. It may be the neurodivergence, probably is the neurodivergence. I love the idea of exploring ideas, adventures & learning.
Finding Out My Long-Term Partner Was HIV Positive Was Devastating
I had some education around HIV before my partner became ill. But nursing her was an intimate experience and opened up possibilities for me to become infected.
Activists Love the Language of Disability, But Avoid Inclusive Logistics
Having lived with invisible disability, I’ve watched event and nonprofit spaces preach inclusion while ignoring real accessibility when it actually matters.
Finally I Am My Love, For The First Time I Am My Own Valentine
It’s the day of the Valentine. From now until the last breath that I ever take I WILL CHOOSE ME. I will love, adore, spoil, cherish, cradle, myself.
I Called It Survival. It Was Courage.
An epiphany arrived most unexpectedly. Poof, out of the dark at a random moment. And it changed my entire self perception. It was courage.
Why Delusional Makes Sense In a World Gone Mad
In a world that has become unhinged in the worst possible ways, delusional thinking is almost mandatory to even survive in a reality that makes no sense.
Forever Was Gone, I Was Supposed To Die Before My Love
Have you ever had a forever relationship? It hurts when you are apart, being together is natural, it feels like it will last forever. I was meant to die first.